Do you take time off as a mompreneur?
In the spirit of gratitude and giving, I wanted to give you some tips so you can schedule time off and enjoy this upcoming holiday season with your family. I know what it is like to be stuck between mom guilt and entrepreneur guilt. And I also know it doesn’t have to be that way.
The strategies we will talk about help you to step away from your business and enjoy guilt-free time off with your family. Or with your spouse or partner. Or on a girls’ trip. The point is…whoever you choose to take time off with, you can do it and feel confident your business will continue without your ever-present hand. And you can enjoy some much needed and well-deserved time away.
If you can commit to discovering what you must do before, practice taking time away to build your confidence, and set boundaries in place to protect your time away, you too can take time off for the holidays. Or, dare I suggest, a vacation.
Why You Need to Take Time Off
And you might be thinking “there is no way I could take time away. Everything would collapse.” Or “I’m fine working while I go on vacation, my family doesn’t mind.”
You may actually schedule and take time off. But the days leading up to your time off is so frantic, you can’t enjoy the first few days of your vacation. Or you might have a wonderful vacation. But because you stress yourself out playing “catch up” when you return, all that good mojo you had going flies out the window.
Learning to take time away improves your mental health. And helps to stave off burnout, which is so common among entrepreneurs. Not to mention it creates lasting memories for us and the people we care about.
Downtime also helps with mental clarity because it gives your brain a rest. It helps improve productivity because we can work focused and with energy.
Not to mention, stepping away from your business can improve your relationships and help with that elusive work/life balance. So many of us moms get into the entrepreneurial game because we want to have flexibility in our schedule and control over how much we work. So make good on this promise to yourself of spending more time with your family. Create those long lasting memories and relationships. Your business will be fine for a few days…if you can incorporate these few strategies I have for you today…
Tips to Take Time Off as a Mom Entrepreneur
- Practice Makes Better – If you are nervous about stepping away from your business baby or community, start small. Take weekend days off. Like completely off. Or maybe even a few weekdays to do something you want to do with your family. Build up your confidence in stepping away and realizing it will be there when you come back.
- Set Boundaries — If taking time completely away is preventing you from taking time at all, perhaps you need “boundaries” during your time off. Like 10 minutes of social media in the morning and night. But don’t get stuck in a scroll hole ignoring your family. Or you can check your email every other day. You have to find the balance that works for you. And maybe even eventually leave it behind. So quick Instagram stories post is ok. Bringing your laptop to work poolside while your family swims, maybe not so much.
- Focus and Finish Priority Tasks — Next, make sure you are crystal clear on what projects need completing before you leave. These tasks have consequences if not completed before you leave. No need to stress over the non-urgent or non-important tasks before you take time off. If they won’t have a direct impact during your vacation, you can let it go. And finishing priority tasks leads perfectly to my next tip which is to…
- Let Go of the Fluff — When it comes to prepping for time off, your to-do list may feel very full and overwhelming. But I bet if you determine which tasks NEED completing, your list starts to feel less stressful. You should relax during your downtime. Don’t start it off by stressing over incomplete, inconsequential tasks. And don’t waste the time leading up to time off on tasks that won’t have an impact. If it isn’t urgent and important, let it go. As Elsa would say…
- Set Yourself Up for Return — And finally, as you prep the tasks you do before we leave, look at what you have coming up after your return. Is there something you can add to your priority prep list to help make the transition easier when you come back? For instance, do you plan to take the week between Christmas and New Year’s off? Do you also have some sort of sale or promotion starting at the beginning of January when you return? What can you do now or to make that transition easier coming out of your downtime?
Implementing these 5 tips will help you learn to take time away from your business. And actually enjoy the time with your family, your friends, or just by yourself. Upon return, you will find yourself refreshed, focused, engaged, and energized…what are you waiting for? Schedule that time off!
Ready to experience better mental, physical, and emotional health without sacrificing additional time and energy? Let’s jump on a free, no-obligation 15-minute clarity call to see how I can help you experience more fun & fulfillment in your work and home life.